Blogging: Understanding nonverbal communication - Discussions in COMM11003 Term 1 , week 8 ,2015
Non verbal communication is one of the important parts while we interact with someone. It is the body language given by our facial expression, gestures, eye contact, posture, and tone of voice—that speak the loudest or quietly which gives most strong impact and can build better relationships than through verbal communication. If someone wants to become a better communicator, it’s important to become more sensitive not only to the verbal language and also towards others body language, but also to your own body cues and language. Non verbal communication impacts more and this creates strong relationship with other people.
Even when you're silent, you're still communicating nonverbally (Segal). People are more likely to understand with their body language and facial expression rather than their words. Their facial expression represents what they are going to say. In my case, I put a big smile on my face and cross my arms if standing whenever i communicate face to face with someone.
I think this habit is good whenever we communicate with someone. Crossing the arms and putting a big smile on face is the act of expressing politeness and well mannered person. But if I cross my arms while giving the presentation then it will give negative impact on audience and thinks I am not used to in presentation. If we want to communicate effectively, avoid misunderstandings, and enjoy solid, trusting relationships both socially and professionally, it’s important to understand how to use and interpret nonverbal signals.
References:
Segal J, Smith M, Boose
G, Jaffe J, 2015 Nonverbal Communication”, http://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships/nonverbal-communication.htm#how